I ran across this memory today on Facebook. I lost my father 18 years ago today. Reflecting on the words I wrote then about him, I find them true. My father left a lasting legacy within me—a legacy of faith, a legacy of service, and a legacy of being a great father to my sons. He lived a life that helped me become the man I am. His influence reminds me daily of the power of a personal legacy and how it shapes the lives of those we love.

Legacy, I’ve learned, starts in the everyday moments. For me, leadership at home isn’t about grand gestures but consistency. It’s in how I make time to listen when my family needs me, or how I support my friends when facing challenges. Legacy is in my choice to be patient, even when I feel stretched thin, or to show grace in situations where frustration could easily take over. These seemingly small actions, repeated over time, are what I hope will form the foundation of my legacy, just as my father’s daily acts of love and faithfulness formed his.

My faith plays a vital role in shaping how I think about my legacy. Each relationship is an opportunity to lead with love and integrity, reflecting the values that matter most. That means prioritizing kindness, generosity, and hope in my interactions with family and friends. I want them to know I lived with intention—not for accolades or recognition, but to leave their lives a little brighter and more purposeful. Just as my father’s faith guided his life and inspired mine, I hope my faith will ripple through the lives of those I love.

Of course, I’m far from perfect. Sometimes, I fall short—when I miss an opportunity to be fully present or let impatience get the better. But I’ve realized that legacy isn’t about perfection; it’s about showing up consistently, owning our mistakes, and striving to improve. It’s about ensuring that love, faith, and grace are central to how we lead and live. My father wasn’t perfect either, but his efforts and heart left an indelible mark that continues to guide me today.

As I reflect on the kind of legacy I want to leave, it’s clear to me that it’s not about wealth or status. It’s about the memories I create with my loved ones, the lessons I leave behind, and the unwavering belief that they are cherished and capable. This kind of legacy is deeply personal, yet it has the power to ripple through generations, just as my father’s legacy has shaped my family.

What about you? What kind of legacy are you building with your family and friends? It’s not about waiting for the perfect moment but starting today. Every word spoken in love, every kind act, and every intentional choice you make creates a lasting impact.

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